Secrets Of Understanding NLP

By Lan Thomas


NLP stands for Neuro-linguistic Programming and is simply a process inn which individuals communicate in striving to achieve their personal development or goals in life. This is a process akin to programming and developing skill sets that are beneficial in a person's life.

NLP shapes an individual behavior especially that learned through what has been experienced. There has been a lot of controversy trying to explain this concept because people tend to associate it to both success and failures in life. The subject entails a close balance between success and failure where success is seen to originate from copying others.

Those who strive to dig deeper in understanding NLP usually get stuck between studying the whole concept or just some part of it. It becomes more complicated and confusing as you dig deeper to understand what it means in real life. In a nutshell, the programming helps people imitate or ape others successes and avoid failures. The human brain is very selective and only chooses what is easily achievable and avoids risks.

People like experimenting before implementing a fact that is internalized in human brains. Once there is some green light of success, the brain communicated to the individual and that is how people act or make decisions. Superstars are many people's role models and we do not look at how they have achieved what they have but only see them for what they are at present. The processes that catapult them to stardom tend to be in background when we want to associate with them.

The programming through NLP looks at what one has achieved and does not concern itself with how the goal was achieved. The process of arriving at a set goal or perfection is more important in life than just finding yourself at the top. Imitating other and doing what they do does not make you equal to them. You need to go through the entire process to be the same as they are or even better.

The NLP processes help in developing persuasion skills in humans, how people work or function and deal with the issues of counseling, coaching and therapies as well. It also helps in creating friendships even if it is for convenience sake. When our mind is programmed, we exude confidence and are able to build short term relationships with people next to us albeit for a short period. Speeches are born of the confidence that NLP helps us built and plays a major role in team participation and individual realization of life long goals.

The brain programming does not mean that people do not thing or function independently when making decisions. The process involves a lot of imagination and it differentiates the creative individual and the less creative. When people get ideas in their mind, they look for channels to communicate the same to others and this is one of NLP functions.

NLP is not an act of controlling the mind but a facilitator to enable others improves their lives in appositive way or in a more cognitive way. The concept is based on therapeutic change is a short period of time. NLP rides on the outcomes of verbal techniques applied in scenarios to effect positive change.




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