3 Super Ways To Build Self-Confidence

By David B. Nelson


Self-confidence is a critical mix in the brewing of success in life. It means assurance and poise. The opposite of it include timidity and insecurity.Self-assurance and poise are the marks of someone with sure steps. It is only those who know where they are going that can step out with self-assurance and poise.Conversely timid and insecure people hardly know where they are going and they step out with unsure steps and are fearful, knowing not where to go.

Some tips on building self confidence are discussed below.Focus on plus points.Try not to bring negative thoughts in your mind. Do not hanker for what is not possible. Try to pay more attention towards your plus points. Everyone has some or the other weakness but it should not stop them from moving ahead. Just do not keep thinking about that weakness, it will lower your self confidence. Make a list of things that you are good at and try to focus more on them. Try to set goals for yourself.

And guess what. We get fatter than before we started our diets.I have good news for you. There really is an easy way to lose weight fast without the guilt associate with dieting.Tip: Build self-confidence.Let's talk about how to build self-confidence & self-esteem. There's a way that's easy-to-do; and it really does work. It'll help you build self-confidence & develop esteem, which in turn will make it easier for you to lose weight fast.

Courage,Courage also means audacity. Audacity refers to the boldness and the nerve to do what you must do. We all have some inherent fears about venturing out. There are several fear factors but the three core fears are fear of failure, fear of rejection and fear of success. Fear cripples the best ideas. Fear hinders progress. Courage comes when your need to be the best salesman overshadows your fear of failure, fear of rejection and fear of success. At this point you key into the realm of self leadership which involves knowing what needs to be done and going ahead to doing it regardless of the challenges you face. You have that boldness to do the very next thing critical to building your self-confidence which is take action.

Your subconscious mind is incredibly powerful, and you'll make the right choices IF you're able to harness its dynamic force. Then, you'll be able to lose weight without dwelling on you weight problem; like you have to with most diets.Tip: Build self-confidence and esteem with self-improvement skills, which help you subconsciously make the right choices.Use an easy-to-do method; one that's simple. Socrates, the philosopher from ancient Greece, is credited; by some historians, for developing one that you can do while you're in your underwear & relaxing in a Lazy-boy. It's so easy-to-do, you can perform the simple ACTIONS even while you're relaxing on your bed.

Self Confidence and Self Esteem is one of the major problems in this world whether you are aware or not. Low self esteem results to an unsuccessful life. If you lack self esteem, you don't have self worth making you feel unworthy of success. This makes you feel that you are incapable of doing things that will bring you success.

Tip: Don't get hooked on a fad diet to lose weight fast.There's an association guilt factor, because; when people backslide, they have a propensity to eat 'comfort food' advertised on TV. Yeah, they get real comfortable; and they get fatter too.Dieting quite often sways your subconscious mind to continue to make unhealthy choices. And, you don't want to get too fat; because you might pop--or at least your heart could.

Write a Journal of All Successes. Record every success you have, big or small in a journal and look back on that success when you start to feel your confidence slipping. This journal is your pep talk to help remind yourself how to build self confidence. In this journal include your thoughts about the achievement before and after. Also, record a reward you gave yourself for a job well done and ensure all of your successes have a reward that you give yourself. For example, if the objective is to get a job, you getting the job is not the reward. You need to celebrate completing the objective successfully.

Look in front of the mirror and start validating yourself.There's no better way to get validated than us validating ourselves. Every morning, look at yourself in the mirror and avoid doing the "automatic" thing of noticing what looks wrong about your face or how you do not want the figure of your body. Start a habit of appreciating what's great about you rather than noticing the not so great features of your physical body. In this way, you will also start to notice the good traits and characteristics that you posses to give you a confidence boost rather than always beating yourself up.

Practice, practice and more practice. You have heard that practice makes perfect well it is really critical for giving you the confidence to succeed at something. Once you take in the knowledge you need then work on practicing the steps to achieving it. There may be certain parts that you can do easily and then there will be other areas that you need to work at before you have the right skill level for you success.These 3 steps combined together can really help you along in your endeavor to increase your level of self-confidence. Remember do not give up on the first few times of trying to do something. It will take some time to get you to the skill level to succeed. Also the more you do this in everything you do the better level of self-esteem you will have. Then you this will help to inspire and motivate you to do more things that are important to you. I know it really made a difference in my life and for my family.




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