How to date women is one of the personal dealings all straight men will have to go through, and you can do this well by learning more about the opposite sex. Understanding their differences and mentality so that you can understand their reactions for every attempt you make to get close is critical. Get more personalized information regarding the specific woman that you've been eyeing and act according to the acceptable etiquettes at her level. If she is the conservative type, do it formally. Remember that dating is a part of life, so do what's right and enjoy yourself.
Men want to date women who can chill with the guys. If you're critical of the food, mean to the waitress, or uptight in any way, he'll conclude that you might be a drag around his boys. Not only is it a turnoff, he'll get crap from them about it, and he doesn't want that. Be sure to show off your easygoing attitude so he'll know his pals will totally dig your presence. I generally date women who make less money than me. I think the reason is I take my career very seriously. I know that sounds arrogant, but I'm a pretty driven guy, more driven than most men and women. That said, the girl I'm dating now makes more money than I do-a lot more! However, that's mainly because I'm starting my own company. We both know that over the long-term, I have the potential to make much more than she does.
Have Inner Energetic,Women live boring lives, or so they think. They crave for fun and fulfillment. This is how she must think of you. Have that inner energy and excitement, and you will make a lasting first impression.Be Observant,Women love to think that you have been thinking about them. Listen to her when she talks about her emotions. Let her share her deep emotions with you, she will then establish an emotionally connection with you.Don't always be there for her!When a man is always there for a girl, it kills all the tension and mystery of the unknown. Remember, the less she knows, the more she thinks about it and the more attached she will become. You must not become just another friend for her, who is always there at her beck and call.Have A Life!Women love men who are MEN! Those who take care of their own business. Get a life, get something to do. Don't just sit there chatting all day. Have a purpose. Follow your passion
Why am I getting all this attention all of a sudden? The reason is simple. It's because I'm with the girls. I'm telling you, when you go out with a couple of your girl mates, it does wonders for your ability to attract other women. When women see that you are making your girls laugh and the girls are talking to you in a flirty way, women will respond. For a start you have prequalified - you have already proven that you are worthy of their attention, which is why you are more likely to get a positive response when approaching. And secondly, it shows value. You give off the perception of being a male in demand, a key quality of the alpha male. Women are instinctively attracted to a man who shows value.
Women on Facebook are bored out of their minds by the number of losers trying to pick them up with stupid pick up lines every single day of the week. Many of these hotties are afraid to even go online on the Chat since probably around fifty strangers (who she accepted since she thought they "might" be normal) will start sending her "hey, what's up?" messages. Then she'll have to ignore all of them, or give them a short, negative reply. Even after that, at least half of these guys won't get the message, and will keep on boring her out of her mind with stupid questions about irrelevant things.My friend, I hope you figured that this is not the right way to seduce girls on Facebook. "What is the right way, then?" - I can already hear you asking. BEFORE you can even mention meeting up with her, or asking for her number - you have to get her attracted to you. That's where 90% of guys mess up. They assume that just because she accepted your friends request, she'll want to go out with you - wrong. 90% mess things up because they try going further with a girl that they didn't attract yet. And what do they get? Rejected. What else.
Be funny - I can't stress how important this step is in starting or maintaining any relationship with a lady. Girls love to laugh and feel good about themselves, and the guy they are with, so mastering this art will greatly enhance your chances of keeping a girl's attention. Whether it's a corny joke, light sarcasm or simply an "at ease" style of conversation you develop, being funny is something worth practicing.Be casual - Although this can mean many things, ultimately it is how "smooth" you are in your look, your attitude and how you turn on conversational queues. Unforced conversation and body language shows that you have a casual attitude and also helps keep you relaxed. Forcing anything at this point can blow up an otherwise great opportunity with a lady!Be interested in her, not you - Assuming you've chosen to pursue a lady you are genuinely interested in, make sure to keep conversation about yourself to a minimum unless it involves a funny anecdote or a quick point you think might be interesting to her. Avoid telling the girl your entire philosophy on life within the first ten minutes of meeting her!Pay attention - On the heels of my last point, pay attention to the things she is saying about herself. This give you less chances of making mistakes and gives you information about her that you can use to relate to her. However, don't make the mistake of seeming like you are quizzing her as some ladies consider that a bit creepy!
One - Power. Show power. In everything you do. You are not a weak guy that will write stupid and boring statuses about how boring his job is and how unsatisfied you are. Don't whine, ever. Guys that whine are not powerful, and therefore not attractive. Your Facebook profile is like a menu - a hot girl can choose between a ton of different meals, why would she choose you? Think about it. Create value in your life, do something with yourself that will make you grow as a person. Build up some value and from then on everything will be easier. Since you will be worth more, you won't have a need to run after women and TRY to prove them how much you are worth. They'll feel it.Two - Social Proof. Yes, the more women are running after you, the more attractive you will appear on Facebook. So - get some traffic. You need to get some hot women liking your stuff, commenting on your stuff positively, writing something on your wall - and make you appear desired, wanted. Women often behave towards you how they believe other women behave towards you. So, if you create some "traffic" on your profile, you'll get a lot more women interested than if your profile looks dead. You have to be in demand.
Men want to date women who can chill with the guys. If you're critical of the food, mean to the waitress, or uptight in any way, he'll conclude that you might be a drag around his boys. Not only is it a turnoff, he'll get crap from them about it, and he doesn't want that. Be sure to show off your easygoing attitude so he'll know his pals will totally dig your presence. I generally date women who make less money than me. I think the reason is I take my career very seriously. I know that sounds arrogant, but I'm a pretty driven guy, more driven than most men and women. That said, the girl I'm dating now makes more money than I do-a lot more! However, that's mainly because I'm starting my own company. We both know that over the long-term, I have the potential to make much more than she does.
Have Inner Energetic,Women live boring lives, or so they think. They crave for fun and fulfillment. This is how she must think of you. Have that inner energy and excitement, and you will make a lasting first impression.Be Observant,Women love to think that you have been thinking about them. Listen to her when she talks about her emotions. Let her share her deep emotions with you, she will then establish an emotionally connection with you.Don't always be there for her!When a man is always there for a girl, it kills all the tension and mystery of the unknown. Remember, the less she knows, the more she thinks about it and the more attached she will become. You must not become just another friend for her, who is always there at her beck and call.Have A Life!Women love men who are MEN! Those who take care of their own business. Get a life, get something to do. Don't just sit there chatting all day. Have a purpose. Follow your passion
Why am I getting all this attention all of a sudden? The reason is simple. It's because I'm with the girls. I'm telling you, when you go out with a couple of your girl mates, it does wonders for your ability to attract other women. When women see that you are making your girls laugh and the girls are talking to you in a flirty way, women will respond. For a start you have prequalified - you have already proven that you are worthy of their attention, which is why you are more likely to get a positive response when approaching. And secondly, it shows value. You give off the perception of being a male in demand, a key quality of the alpha male. Women are instinctively attracted to a man who shows value.
Women on Facebook are bored out of their minds by the number of losers trying to pick them up with stupid pick up lines every single day of the week. Many of these hotties are afraid to even go online on the Chat since probably around fifty strangers (who she accepted since she thought they "might" be normal) will start sending her "hey, what's up?" messages. Then she'll have to ignore all of them, or give them a short, negative reply. Even after that, at least half of these guys won't get the message, and will keep on boring her out of her mind with stupid questions about irrelevant things.My friend, I hope you figured that this is not the right way to seduce girls on Facebook. "What is the right way, then?" - I can already hear you asking. BEFORE you can even mention meeting up with her, or asking for her number - you have to get her attracted to you. That's where 90% of guys mess up. They assume that just because she accepted your friends request, she'll want to go out with you - wrong. 90% mess things up because they try going further with a girl that they didn't attract yet. And what do they get? Rejected. What else.
Be funny - I can't stress how important this step is in starting or maintaining any relationship with a lady. Girls love to laugh and feel good about themselves, and the guy they are with, so mastering this art will greatly enhance your chances of keeping a girl's attention. Whether it's a corny joke, light sarcasm or simply an "at ease" style of conversation you develop, being funny is something worth practicing.Be casual - Although this can mean many things, ultimately it is how "smooth" you are in your look, your attitude and how you turn on conversational queues. Unforced conversation and body language shows that you have a casual attitude and also helps keep you relaxed. Forcing anything at this point can blow up an otherwise great opportunity with a lady!Be interested in her, not you - Assuming you've chosen to pursue a lady you are genuinely interested in, make sure to keep conversation about yourself to a minimum unless it involves a funny anecdote or a quick point you think might be interesting to her. Avoid telling the girl your entire philosophy on life within the first ten minutes of meeting her!Pay attention - On the heels of my last point, pay attention to the things she is saying about herself. This give you less chances of making mistakes and gives you information about her that you can use to relate to her. However, don't make the mistake of seeming like you are quizzing her as some ladies consider that a bit creepy!
One - Power. Show power. In everything you do. You are not a weak guy that will write stupid and boring statuses about how boring his job is and how unsatisfied you are. Don't whine, ever. Guys that whine are not powerful, and therefore not attractive. Your Facebook profile is like a menu - a hot girl can choose between a ton of different meals, why would she choose you? Think about it. Create value in your life, do something with yourself that will make you grow as a person. Build up some value and from then on everything will be easier. Since you will be worth more, you won't have a need to run after women and TRY to prove them how much you are worth. They'll feel it.Two - Social Proof. Yes, the more women are running after you, the more attractive you will appear on Facebook. So - get some traffic. You need to get some hot women liking your stuff, commenting on your stuff positively, writing something on your wall - and make you appear desired, wanted. Women often behave towards you how they believe other women behave towards you. So, if you create some "traffic" on your profile, you'll get a lot more women interested than if your profile looks dead. You have to be in demand.
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