The secret of change is to focus everything on creating what you can in the present, and letting yourself slip out of the past and the future.
But how can you do this?
First, I'm not talking about those simple changes that we can all make. I'm talking about the hard-hitting type of changes where you want to make tectonic shifts with your life. That type of change takes a completely different approach than what we are currently using. The change that lasts forever takes a methodology that spans over a lifetime.
The past will hold you down and the future will show you the greatest mirage of a place "where it all turns out." Both of these places are incredibly dangerous because they keep us from being in action in the present moment. Even though we can go there in our heads, we have to avoid living in these places at all costs.
Change isn't easy. In fact, change is incredibly difficult. To prove my point, did you know that 92% of people who make New Years Resolutions fail in accomplishing them? That number is astronomical. That number is so big that it makes you really want to ask the question "What in the world is broken with that type of thinking?"
So what can you do to make sure that you're successful?
When it comes down to it, it's actually pretty simple. Focus on one thing, every day, to make yourself a little bit better compared to the day before and do that for as long as you can. Don't get obsessive about the quantum leap where everything changes all at once - it is a lie. That's a "New Years Resolution" way of thinking. Instead, focus on the daily tasks you can perform and over a period of time you will change more than you could really ever imagine.
Start a successful journey of change today.
Do it now.
But how can you do this?
First, I'm not talking about those simple changes that we can all make. I'm talking about the hard-hitting type of changes where you want to make tectonic shifts with your life. That type of change takes a completely different approach than what we are currently using. The change that lasts forever takes a methodology that spans over a lifetime.
The past will hold you down and the future will show you the greatest mirage of a place "where it all turns out." Both of these places are incredibly dangerous because they keep us from being in action in the present moment. Even though we can go there in our heads, we have to avoid living in these places at all costs.
Change isn't easy. In fact, change is incredibly difficult. To prove my point, did you know that 92% of people who make New Years Resolutions fail in accomplishing them? That number is astronomical. That number is so big that it makes you really want to ask the question "What in the world is broken with that type of thinking?"
So what can you do to make sure that you're successful?
When it comes down to it, it's actually pretty simple. Focus on one thing, every day, to make yourself a little bit better compared to the day before and do that for as long as you can. Don't get obsessive about the quantum leap where everything changes all at once - it is a lie. That's a "New Years Resolution" way of thinking. Instead, focus on the daily tasks you can perform and over a period of time you will change more than you could really ever imagine.
Start a successful journey of change today.
Do it now.
About the Author:
Time to live your dream. Evan Sanders is a professional life coach at AYKME Life Coaching and writes articles about the experiences of daily life. Make sure to check out these Quotes About Fear and these Quotes About Forgiveness for some good motivation and inspiration.
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