How True Lover Tests Evaluate Relationships

By Nancy Gardner


Falling in love, one of the staple experiences of the human existence, is a risky venture. You want to make sure that the relationships you enter and the person you attach yourself to are right for you. True lover tests help to determine this.

Infatuation is often confused with true love. This is a problem that people of all ages and social backgrounds face. Admittedly though, it is a dilemma that is usually associated with teenagers who have not yet learnt how to judge characters objectively and gauge their own emotions.

Many long term decisions are taken in haste when individuals are in the throes of young love or infatuation. These decisions have the potential to trigger long lasting negative effects especially if the relationship fails. While these instruments cannot, by themselves, prevent the heartache of failed relationships, they are able to send warning signals when relationships are starting off on weak footing.

Love evaluation instruments are made up of questions. These questions are focused on the behaviors and feelings of the subjects. Each question has a range of, on average, three questions. Each of those questions has a numeric value. When the test is completed, the total score of the questions is tallied. This total is them matched against some categories to determine which one is appropriate. The category contains an overview of the status of the love or the relationship.

Often found in magazine publications, these tests are popular as a means of passing the time. People complete the evaluation sheets in doctor's offices as they wait to be seen. They also complete them as they sit in their seats on a flight or bus traveling from one destination to another.

Many of these true love evaluation systems are now available online. The online versions are often easier to complete. This is because they tend to be interactive enough for the computer to assign the scores for the responses and tally the final score. The evaluation result is then produced automatically. This removes a lot of the work from the task allowing the test taker to attempt as many relationship evaluation instruments as possible.

Professional behaviorists also use them. They often combine them with compatibility evaluation instruments to determine the strength of a relationship. In doing so they are able to provide evidence backed advise to their clients.

Love is quite unpredictable and uncontrollable. What can be controlled is the way people behave and the decisions they make when they are in the throes of love. Tests that measure the strength of a relationship and the connection between two people help to provide them with a rational evaluation, which in turn helps them to make better decisions.




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