Where does confidence come from?
Is it something you are just born with or are we able to grow our confidence over a period of time? Yes, it would appear that a few individuals just have it. But as someone that had it, lost it fully, and had to build it all back from nothing, I'm going to say you can do some pretty interesting things with building some iron belief in your life.
Those who lose their confidence often never earn it back because they don't know what to do to when it comes time to building strong character traits. While it can be a tumultuous landscape to navigate, there is a way to bring confidence back into your life.
There are these little things I really like to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of long lasting confidence comes from the activity of sweating the details, the tiny stuff, the things that most people often overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the little details down, and really knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction.
Then, when you start to build some serious momentum from doing the little things right, you can raise the bar on your life and start going after bigger goals. Those bigger goals become more doable because you have the background and experience of doing all of the little things right. That's what confidence is really made out of. Confidence is built from knowing you can perform a task because you have done something similar before. Confidence comes from trust.
So don't listen to conventional wisdom that says, "Don't sweat the small stuff." Sweat it. Make sure you sweat it. Focus on the little things in life and they will help you build the momentum to tackle bigger goals.
Lots of individuals get put off when they try something gigantic in life and fail. In reality most people will try something 3 times and then give up without ever coming back to it. But if you build some significant momentum, you'll have the confidence to try something over and over until you get it right.
Those little daily choices are the momentum builders.
Build some major momentum behind you and you are really capable of amazing things. But first, you have to sweat the really small stuff.
Is it something you are just born with or are we able to grow our confidence over a period of time? Yes, it would appear that a few individuals just have it. But as someone that had it, lost it fully, and had to build it all back from nothing, I'm going to say you can do some pretty interesting things with building some iron belief in your life.
Those who lose their confidence often never earn it back because they don't know what to do to when it comes time to building strong character traits. While it can be a tumultuous landscape to navigate, there is a way to bring confidence back into your life.
There are these little things I really like to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of long lasting confidence comes from the activity of sweating the details, the tiny stuff, the things that most people often overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the little details down, and really knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction.
Then, when you start to build some serious momentum from doing the little things right, you can raise the bar on your life and start going after bigger goals. Those bigger goals become more doable because you have the background and experience of doing all of the little things right. That's what confidence is really made out of. Confidence is built from knowing you can perform a task because you have done something similar before. Confidence comes from trust.
So don't listen to conventional wisdom that says, "Don't sweat the small stuff." Sweat it. Make sure you sweat it. Focus on the little things in life and they will help you build the momentum to tackle bigger goals.
Lots of individuals get put off when they try something gigantic in life and fail. In reality most people will try something 3 times and then give up without ever coming back to it. But if you build some significant momentum, you'll have the confidence to try something over and over until you get it right.
Those little daily choices are the momentum builders.
Build some major momentum behind you and you are really capable of amazing things. But first, you have to sweat the really small stuff.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is a professional life coach at AYKME Life Coaching and writes articles about the experience of daily life on this earth. Make sure to check out these Positive Thinking Quotes and dive into some Be Happy Quotes to start moving towards those dreams.
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