Where does confidence come from? Is it something you are just born with or are we able to inspire confidence over a period of time? Yes, some people just have it. But as someone that had it, lost it fully, and had to build it all back from scratch, I'm going to tell you you can do some pretty interesting things with building some iron confidence in your life.
It might be that you have none in your life right now, or that you just desire some more because you know how much it would help you with making big decisions. But truly, where does this sustainable confidence come from? There are these little things I like to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of long-lasting confidence comes from the activity of sweating the details, the little stuff, the things that almost all people frequently overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the little details down, and actually knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction. Often, going in any direction is better than not moving at all. You actually begin to say, "Okay, I was capable of doing these things and brought these affirmative habits into my life..what else am I truly capable of?" Now you are entering into a place of magic. You see, when you really nail the little stuff, the larger things become more attainable. It's when we try to go for the big goal without having the integrity of focusing on the small things that truly set us up for great failure.
So sweat the little stuff. Really take the time to target the achievable measure of your life, and over longer bouts of time start going for larger goals. What if you fail? Take a gentle step back down and refocus on what you can attain, and try and try again. This is a pretty simple path to success. In fact, the quantum leap is exactly what you should not be focusing on.
A lot of people get put off when they try something large in life and fail. Actually most people will try something 3 times and then give up without every coming back to it. But if you build some significant momentum, you'll have the confidence to try something over and over until the day you get it correct.
Isn't that a much more fun way to live life?
Build some major momentum behind you and you are incredibly capable of wonderful things.
But first, you have to sweat the small stuff.
It might be that you have none in your life right now, or that you just desire some more because you know how much it would help you with making big decisions. But truly, where does this sustainable confidence come from? There are these little things I like to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of long-lasting confidence comes from the activity of sweating the details, the little stuff, the things that almost all people frequently overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the little details down, and actually knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction. Often, going in any direction is better than not moving at all. You actually begin to say, "Okay, I was capable of doing these things and brought these affirmative habits into my life..what else am I truly capable of?" Now you are entering into a place of magic. You see, when you really nail the little stuff, the larger things become more attainable. It's when we try to go for the big goal without having the integrity of focusing on the small things that truly set us up for great failure.
So sweat the little stuff. Really take the time to target the achievable measure of your life, and over longer bouts of time start going for larger goals. What if you fail? Take a gentle step back down and refocus on what you can attain, and try and try again. This is a pretty simple path to success. In fact, the quantum leap is exactly what you should not be focusing on.
A lot of people get put off when they try something large in life and fail. Actually most people will try something 3 times and then give up without every coming back to it. But if you build some significant momentum, you'll have the confidence to try something over and over until the day you get it correct.
Isn't that a much more fun way to live life?
Build some major momentum behind you and you are incredibly capable of wonderful things.
But first, you have to sweat the small stuff.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author and creator of The Words Of Encouragment, a website dedicated to encouraging others to achieve their dreams and live the best lives possible. So are you ready to start building some self confidence? If so, dive into these self confidence quotes.
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