A few years ago, I had a teacher give us a small speech right before we left for the holidays.
One piece however, truly stuck out to me.
He said that we must first accept who we are if we are going to make changes in our lives.
What do I mean by this?
He meant that if you can accept the way you are now, you can give yourself access to changing who you want to be.
If you take it a few steps further, you have to look at your entire life in depth and understand where you can make improvements.
The other incredibly important part of this is being honest with yourself about where you're at.
Why is it so important to do this?
All of the truth and honesty is exactly what you need to build a solid life upon.
Going through this process allows you to step right into building a new life without trying to escape your old one.
When you can stop avoiding the past and accept the mistakes you have made, you free yourself from something that could be holding you back for the rest of your life.
So how do we actually do this audit in real terms?
The best way of making this happen is to get a massive piece of paper and map out exactly where you are right now.
When you go through this process it really gives you great visual experience of what's going on in your life and how you need to reorganize everything.
The next big question you have to ask yourself is, "Where do I want to be?"
The other piece of this puzzle is to envision what is in the future for you and to work backwards from there.
If you can do this step by step, you have battle plans that will help you move into the future with a specific plan.
This will make you grounded in the future as you know what you are heading towards and what you want with your life.
Another beneficial aspect to doing this process is that you begin to figure out what you don't know and what you do know. Knowing both of these aspects of your life is going to help you move forward into the future as well.
So take some time to understand the landscape and begin to invest in yourself so you can start to move forward in this life.
This will help you achieve your greatest dreams.
This process is pure magic.
One piece however, truly stuck out to me.
He said that we must first accept who we are if we are going to make changes in our lives.
What do I mean by this?
He meant that if you can accept the way you are now, you can give yourself access to changing who you want to be.
If you take it a few steps further, you have to look at your entire life in depth and understand where you can make improvements.
The other incredibly important part of this is being honest with yourself about where you're at.
Why is it so important to do this?
All of the truth and honesty is exactly what you need to build a solid life upon.
Going through this process allows you to step right into building a new life without trying to escape your old one.
When you can stop avoiding the past and accept the mistakes you have made, you free yourself from something that could be holding you back for the rest of your life.
So how do we actually do this audit in real terms?
The best way of making this happen is to get a massive piece of paper and map out exactly where you are right now.
When you go through this process it really gives you great visual experience of what's going on in your life and how you need to reorganize everything.
The next big question you have to ask yourself is, "Where do I want to be?"
The other piece of this puzzle is to envision what is in the future for you and to work backwards from there.
If you can do this step by step, you have battle plans that will help you move into the future with a specific plan.
This will make you grounded in the future as you know what you are heading towards and what you want with your life.
Another beneficial aspect to doing this process is that you begin to figure out what you don't know and what you do know. Knowing both of these aspects of your life is going to help you move forward into the future as well.
So take some time to understand the landscape and begin to invest in yourself so you can start to move forward in this life.
This will help you achieve your greatest dreams.
This process is pure magic.
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